Tirukural

CHAPTER 19

Avoidance of Backbiting

181

Silent about virtue and swift to act wrongly, one who does not slander others may still be called good.§

182

More vile than violating virtue and committing crime is slandering a man, then smiling to his face.§

183

Virtue declares that dying, not living, will bring better rewards to deceiving backbiters.§

184

Though you speak unkind words to a man’s face, do not talk behind his back heedless of consequent harm.§

185

Though his every word is full of kindly virtue, a man’s mean backbiting will betray an empty heart.§

186

If a man spreads tales of others’ faults, his own worst faults will be exposed and spread.§

187

Not knowing the companionable art of cheerful conversation, men estrange even friends by divisive discourse.§

188

If men are disposed to spread the faults of friends, what deadly harm might they do to strangers?§

189

Only because she weighs duty well does Earth bear the weight of those who wait for a man’s departure to defame him.§

190

If men perceived their own faults as they do the faults of others, could misfortune ever come to them?§