{"id":366,"date":"2026-05-21T13:09:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-21T23:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kauaishindumonastery.com\/mc-daily-lessons\/?p=366"},"modified":"2025-05-27T17:00:03","modified_gmt":"2025-05-28T03:00:03","slug":"lesson-40-living-with-siva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kauaishindumonastery.com\/mc-daily-lessons\/lesson-40-living-with-siva\/","title":{"rendered":"Lesson 40 \u2013 Living with \u015aiva"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/kauaishindumonastery.com\/mc-daily-lessons\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/LwS-Lesson-40.mp3\"><\/audio><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Recording: Gurudeva&#8217;s cloned voice<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Selfish and Miserly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The virtue of d\u0101na deals with the pragmatic physical transference of cash or kind. It is the foundation and the life blood of any other form of religious giving, such as giving of one\u2019s time. Many people rationalize, \u201cI\u2019ll give my time to the temple. I\u2019ll wash the pots, scrub the floor and tidy up. But I can\u2019t afford to give of my limited wealth proportionate to what would be total fulfillment of giving.\u201d Basically, they have nothing better to do with their time, and to ease their own conscience, they volunteer a little work. There is no merit, no pu\u1e47ya, in this, only demerit, p\u0101pa. No, it\u2019s just the other way around. One who has perfected d\u0101na in cash and in kind and is satisfied within this practice, this niyama, will then be able and willing to give of his time, to tithe ten percent of his time, and then give time over and above that to religious and other worthy causes. Shall we say that the perfection of d\u0101na precedes seva, service? <br><br>What can be said of someone who is all wrapped up in his personal self: concealing his personal ego with a pleasant smile, gentle deeds, soft words, but who just takes care of \u201cnumber one\u201d? For instance, if living with ten people, he will cook for himself and not cook for the others. He gets situations confused, entertains mental arguments within himself and is always worried about the progress in his religious life. We would say he is still trying to work on the restraints\u2014compassion, patience, sexual purity, moderate appetite\u2014and has not yet arrived at number three on the chart of the practices called niyamas. Modern psychology would categorize him as self-centered, selfish, egotistical. To overcome this selfishness, assuming he gets the restraints in order, doing things for others would be the practice, seeing that everyone is fed first before he eats, helping out in every way he can, performing anonymous acts of kindness at every opportunity. <br><br>In an orthodox Hindu home, the traditional wife will follow the practice of arising in the morning before her husband, preparing his hot meal, serving him and eating only after he is finished; preparing his lunch, serving him and eating after he is finished; preparing his dinner, serving him and eating after he is finished, even if he returns home late. Giving to her husband is her fulfillment, three times a day. This is built into Hindu society, into \u015aaivite culture. <br><br>Wives should be allowed by their husbands to perform giving outside the home, too, but many are not. All too often, they are held down, embarrassed and treated almost like domestic slaves\u2014given no money, given no things to give, disallowed to practice d\u0101na, to tithe and give creatively without thought of reward. Such domineering, miserly and ignorant males will get their just due in the courts of karma at the moment of death and shortly after. The divine law is that the wife\u2019s \u015bakti power, once released, makes her husband magnetic and successful in his worldly affairs, and their wealth accumulates. He knows from tradition that to release this \u015bakti he must always fulfill all of the needs of his beloved wife and give her generously everything she wants. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">NANDINATHA S\u016aTRA 40: KARMA, REINCARNATION AND LIBERATION<br>\u015aiva\u2019s followers all believe in the law of karma\u2014that one must reap the effects of all actions he has caused\u2014and that each soul reincarnates until all karmas are resolved and moksha, liberation, is attained. Aum Nama\u1e25 \u015aiv\u0101ya.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Selfish and Miserly The virtue of d\u0101na deals with the pragmatic physical transference of cash or kind. It is the foundation and the life blood of any other form of religious giving, such as giving of one\u2019s time. Many people rationalize, \u201cI\u2019ll give my time to the temple. 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