{"id":1239,"date":"2026-10-05T13:09:00","date_gmt":"2026-10-05T23:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kauaishindumonastery.com\/mc-daily-lessons\/?p=1239"},"modified":"2025-10-11T17:00:02","modified_gmt":"2025-10-12T03:00:02","slug":"lesson-177-living-with-siva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kauaishindumonastery.com\/mc-daily-lessons\/lesson-177-living-with-siva\/","title":{"rendered":"Lesson 177 \u2013 Living with \u015aiva"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/kauaishindumonastery.com\/mc-daily-lessons\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/LwS-Lesson-177.mp3\"><\/audio><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Recording: Gurudeva&#8217;s cloned voice<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Training in Energy Use<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another way to communicate is when mom serves her children meals. While they are eating their favorite food served by their favorite person, she gently speaks some loving advice for their deportment, or a gentle correction, in the right ear, not the left. These timely suggestions, well implanted at that very human psychological moment, are absorbed in the subconscious as the meal digests. Five decades ago in Sri Lanka, I learned of this shrewd Hindu ingenuity by which women have been known to turn an election by whispering in their husband\u2019s ear whom he should vote for, just as he is putting into his mouth his favorite morsels of food. This wisdom is one of the positive laws behind Nandin\u0101tha S\u016btra 99, which requires the wife to serve her husband food, enjoying her own meal only after he and the children have been well satisfied. Politicking? Well, yes! of the highest womanly order. She has her ways. Yes, the clever wife is indeed the queen of her castle. The \u1e5bishis tell us there are eighty-four ways a woman can influence her man and keep him on\u2014or lead him off\u2014the path of dharma. Some call these wiles; others know them as the feminine siddhis. <br><br>It is the parents\u2019 duty to provide a sound education in the use and misuse of the life forces, the sexual energies, and teach their children how to control them as they grow into adulthood. Only in this way will they have the knowledge required to face the challenges of their own instinctive\/intellectual nature. <br><br>There are two main areas that parents can feel free to speak about with their boys and girls as they are growing up from a very young age. These are pr\u0101\u1e47a and the chakras. Once your children have a clear idea of what pr\u0101\u1e47a actually is and what the chakras actually are, they will be confident in lifting up the sexual pr\u0101\u1e47as into the higher chakras when puberty is upon them. <br><br>You who are parents know that this pr\u0101\u1e47a will increase within your physical body until you are about forty years of age. After that, the pr\u0101\u1e47a increases in power within the mental body until you are about the age of seventy. Then the pr\u0101\u1e47a continues to increase within the spiritual body of the soul. Carefully explain time and time again to your children that it is up to them to control their pr\u0101\u1e47a, their life force, which is the total energy of their body. Until forty years of age, this is done through education, exercise and hard work. After forty until seventy, this is done through study, caring for those younger than themselves, community service and additional education. After seventy this is done through worship, s\u0101dhana, tapas and deep meditation. <br><br>When explaining the chakras to your children, refer to these force centers as lovely flowers within them that need to be fed by their vital energies. Teach them to breathe deeply and lift the sexual energy from the lower chakras to the higher ones and hold it there, as if to feed and water these flowers. Teach them that chakras are also rooms of consciousness, and the energy we put into the chakras awakens this consciousness and makes us very alert and intelligent. <br><br>In other words, as soon as your children can understand, you can begin teaching them about their energies. In this way, you give them the tools to handle their sexual nature so that their forces do not run away with their mind during puberty. In this way, you will open channels to talk freely with them about sex when the time comes. Many parents give absolutely no guidance in this area to their children, who then have to learn from other children or from the Internet, alone in a room, about this natural function of their life. So, be a wise parent and begin early. Remember, there are only two basic areas to cover: pr\u0101\u1e47a and chakras. Your own intuition will guide you as to how to proceed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\" \/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">NANDINATHA S\u016aTRA 177: PROMOTING SPIRITUAL VALUES<br>\u015aiva\u2019s devotees who are parliamentarians take pains to spread lofty religious tenets and tolerant human values among their constituents. They commission competent people who will enhance all the great world faiths. Aum.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Training in Energy Use Another way to communicate is when mom serves her children meals. While they are eating their favorite food served by their favorite person, she gently speaks some loving advice for their deportment, or a gentle correction, in the right ear, not the left. 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